Love and relationships are one thing you must never intervene or mess with. It can mess with the most stable mind and destroy the most unstable. It can change the course of your life as well as well as others. It can create mass destruction that can allow fatal actions to be composed among society. Love is a fuck up. Growing up, you always see on T.V. and other media advertisements even at ages before basic education, that Love is something amazing. They teach you that you WILL grow up and you WILL find someone to love , and Someone WILL love you. But in some cases that is not true. As a child I always knew that I was happy, boys, self esteem and world worries did not have an effect on my life. Life was simple hard and stressful. Love was the last thing to enter my mind. It was interesting. Being a kid. Then I grew up. Learned and hated every second of it. Love is the main thing that has been taught to people and it has surely screwed with everyone. Getting to be a teenager, the word "love" was highlighted and pasted on front page in every teenage mind. It was priority over family, school and friends. Somehow it managed to take over. Its like a game to them. To keep busy with. Something new that they used to escape what they are so used to. I mean growing up from age 5 you are forced to attend school Love your family and have best friends. Then you are old enough to choose what you want your life to become and you express that through the opposite sex. Its your way of rebelling to the world and making a statement. Getting back at your parents and friends and being independent. It’s a curse among almost ever teenager in the world. The word love is a strong word but used lightly in the 21 century. It’s a word to express almost any sort of happiness, but it has become a language of its own. One word can mean so many things and we have taught ourselves to understand it. Amazing how passing a language class in school can be so difficult but a language that consists of simply one word is outrageous! Love can mean friendship, family, a thank you, word of reassurance. Love can mean im sorry, it can even be used as a sarcastic remark. Then the traditional "I love you" is hardly used now a days. It is used when you have a feeling that overpowers and overcomes all others. That one word can mean everything you have and will ever want to say to someone. It says you want to spend the rest of your life with them, you want to grow old with them, you want to feel them in your arms, you want to be there for them and take your life for them. Love is your life. It is a word that should only be said if meant. It should be a word that should be one scarcely used. It’s a magnificent thing for adults to think that they know all. How many times does that average child or teenager hear the words "your too young to know what love is." But they are sorely mistaken. Its something that anyone can feel and everyone has felt. Yes its used as a feeling towards family and friends but its something that is part of basic human health, To love and be loved in return. Sometimes you see kids (and it gets younger the older our generation gets) say they are in love in even elementary school. Sounds ridiculous but we naturally think as love as something that last forever. But love is just a heavy emotion for someone. Therefore yes, you can love at a young age. But that brings us back to the different types of meanings for Love. Love can be that burning emotion for someone but it can be slightly deluded to a little less extreme intensity which mostly occurs to be the word "crush," It’s a more simple and calmer meaning for love. So if a child says they love someone, don’t deny them, don’t destroy there feelings that are more than natural. Being in such a fucked up world that we happened to create, this is what they need the most. Some sense of hope and reasoning. Once your older but not yet an adult it becomes a game. The whispers of "is she dating so and so?" and "oh my god, there together again!" linger in the dry throats and crowded hallways of schools. You look at a popular group of girls and then you look at a popular group of boys and evaluate how many of them have been with each other. You must be in a specific social domain to be with someone. Popular and popular. Geek and Geek, emo and emo. Shame and destruction happens if any of that changes. Heaven forbid if a higher class boy dates a lower class girl then He is shunned from what he calls "friends" and the girl is praised for such an achievement. Two friends can be so close for so many years even as young as pre-school and a boy can destroy all of that. Jealousy and hate are like wasps just waiting for their victim. People start to date someone for a few days and there being silly enough to celebrate one week, one month and two month anniversaries! Which was originally copied from one year anniversaries from normal relationships commonly used in marriage? The word love is commonly used as a word to get in bed with someone, just to fuck them and then its over and it sadly happens more than should be seen. Break ups cause drama that can fuck up your life. Nothing permanent but it sure can ruin you "high school days." These "relationships," can cause one disease most common in teenagers. Depression. It can hurt so badly and it’s hard to be brought back from the depths of thought. Love is something that can fuck with you and I guarantee that it will. You cannot escape it and it will find you. If you are lucky you will find someone to say you love. Someone that will hold you and be with you. Someone that will talk to you when you cry and let you. Someone honest enough to tell you that you look big in that dress or laugh till three in the morning with. And someone that you can lay in their arms for hour and not a word would be said and its ok. To look into their eyes and see who they are and who they’re not. A person who loves you when you lay on the couch with a jug of chocolate ice cream when the tears won’t stop falling from your exhausted eyes. Who deals with your monthly mood swings and thinks your amazing when you’re angry. Someone who isn’t afraid to tell you that there sorry or there wrong. The list could go on for pages of someone perfect that we all wish we could have but sadly never seem to find. The brightest stars are too far to reach but sometimes the duller ones are the best. There real and they know how to live and make mistakes. We are human and love is just as important as breathing.
It will fuck you up and it will save your life.
Depends on how you choose it to go.
Be careful because its stronger then you can imagine.
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